Diary of a Submissive Guy: January 2019

Sunday, January 13, 2019

She explains DD protocol to a friend

She was sitting in the living room with a friend, discussing some of the protocols of our DD relationship.

She said, "First I utilize what I call 'daily discipline' for lack of a better term. Yes, it is almost always daily, sometimes twice a day.
Usually I have him strip naked. Sometime I allow him to start in his briefs ... maybe shirt, socks... and I have him get over my knees or lap, and I apply my hand and hairbrush to his bare bottom.

I'm sure it stings, but I don't think it 'hurts' him. I'm not trying to 'hurt' him during Daily Discipline, I'm just emphasizing the point that I am in charge of the relationship, and that I can and I will discipline him at any time for any thing.
Then, it's a step up to Maintenance, or Reminder, Discipline. This I administer weekly. During this time, I 'remind' him of the house rules, and who is really in charge. I don't really think he needs 'reminding', as he painfully learned during our first couple months what the rules are, but I still take the this time to remind him, and I believe it helps with his ongoing good behavior. For these sessions, I have him strip naked, and usually have him stand in a corner for, well, a while, before the session, and then again, after. These sessions are quite painful for him, as I usually administer cane strokes across his bottom while I'm reminding him.

Then, it's a step up to Punishment. This I use, if he breaks a rule, any rule, no matter how minor he might think it is, or sometimes a rule he did not know existed until he breaks it. Examples of prime rules are: keep the toilet seat down, do what I say when I say to do it, do not back talk me, be home from work on time OR call me if he can't, and a big one: Do not masturbate.
Punishment only has one level: severe.
It can take the form of many hard cane strokes

or a very hard paddling

or a long hard beating with a leather strap

or a beating with a rug beater ...

.. or a combination of any or all of the aforementioned.
One time, after I caught him masturbating for the second time in the month, I had him strip naked, and took him out to the garage, tied his hands above his head, and used a whip on his back and butt.